Reflection Questions: Slogans 21 & 22

  1. Reimagining Joy

    • What does “joy” mean to you when it’s not about pleasure or excitement—but about being awake in the midst of your life as it is?

    • Can you recall a moment recently where you touched into a sense of inner buoyancy—even if things were hard?

  2. Joy in the Messiness

    • We are reminded by Pema Chödrön that joy arises from not running away. Can you think of a time when you stayed with discomfort and noticed something freeing or tender within it?

    • How might you gently invite more of that kind of joy into your day-to-day practice?

  3. Returning While Distracted

    • When life pulls you off-center—through stress, overwhelm, or habit—what helps you remember your path, even briefly?

    • What does coming back to holding the view with gentleness look or feel like for you?

  4. Friends with Distraction

    • Trungpa Rinpoche suggests we make friends with distraction. Is there a distracting pattern or trigger you’re learning to relate to more kindly?

    • What’s shifting when you approach it this way?

  5. Path Over Perfection

    • These slogans invite a relationship with practice that’s not about being perfect, but about training with tenderness. How do you know when you’re “well-trained,” even if things still feel messy?

  6. Integration in Real Life

    • Where have you found yourself practicing in the middle of life—in traffic, with family, in a moment of reactivity?

    • How do these teachings land when you’re with others who are not dharma practitioners?